There has always been a curiosity to the concept that we attract mirror images of ourselves. I personally have been around some incredibly loving people with great intentions but they let a toxic side of themselves take over due to things that manifest on the inside. What does that say about me? How is that my mirror image?
What about the projection aspect? Have you ever totally recognized flaws or habitual patterns in someone that you couldn't see in yourself. Are we all lessons?
Caroline Myss was on Super Soul Sundays - Oprah's OWN network. This woman was introduced to me by Mr Sean Gray for my birthday about 8 years ago with a book called "The Sacred Contracts" I have since then given it as many gifts, and maybe about due to read it again.
Caroline explained yesterday that the spirit, that we, who speak of it often and understand the concept speak of HOPE. Spirituality is positivity and hope. Understand that your spirit will find its souls match, to love without judgement, be open to all you two can share and see all you can share in your life.
"The beginning of love is to let those we love to be perfectly themselves and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them"
You don't have to know the answers, you don't have to fix anything, live and let be and the rest will come to you.